Why Bigger Isn’t Better

I confess that I’ve now started this Thanksgiving blog post five or six times and then deleted what I’d written. I had lofty goals of writing a beautiful tribute to everything for which I’m thankful. What I wound up with sounded either insipid and saccharine-y (and we all know my position on artificial sweeteners), or came across sounding oddly ungrateful. So, instead of being “normal” and writing a glowing homage to the many blessings that overflow in my life, I thought I’d write instead about why we should be thankful for the tiny things we often overlook. The end result is a list of questions connected to situations I often hear people complain about. I’m sure none of you can relate to any of those situations (because you’re far too noble), so feel free to share this post with someone who can.

Do you find it difficult to be thankful and give thanks for your daily to do list and for the long list of tasks demanding your attention? Stop for a moment and give thanks that you even have a to do list. Many in this country no longer have a to do list because they were laid off or their company went under. Give thanks that you’re overly busy, even if you hate your job. At least you have one.

Are you frustrated by your domestic duties and that no one else in the house helps? (Every mom knows what I’m talking about.) Be thankful you have a roof overhead requiring such chores. Then take a drive downtown and pay careful attention to the expressions on the faces of those standing outside missions waiting to get a bed. There are many who would love to have a place to call their own and to know where they’re going to sleep every night. Cleaning their own toilet would be a blessing to them.


Are you tired of the old tile and wallpaper in your bathroom? Give thanks that you have indoor plumbing. I’m serious about this one. When we lived in Mexico, we didn’t have indoor plumbing for a while. Every flush is a blessing to me now. If you’re fed up because your kids used all the hot water, stop and be sincerely thankful that you have hot water. Again, I speak from personal experience. I’ve lived in two different countries where we didn’t have hot water. Cold showers suck in any language.


Are you feeling frustrated because a clerk or server or teacher isn’t being nice or treating you with respect? Give thanks that you’re not dealing with the pain that person is dealing with. There’s a reason they are so nasty. Be thankful you’re not carrying their burdens, then go out of your way to be nice to them. Big tips make a huge difference. Some day they’ll appreciate your kindness.


Frustrated because your job or relationship is too confining? Be thankful you’re not in prison.

Frustrated by traffic and people who drive 10 miles under the speed limit? Me too. Get over it.

In all seriousness, stop taking the easy way out and giving thanks for the “big” blessings in your life. Start making an effort to notice and be sincerely grateful for the little blessings that abound in your life. Then make a conscious choice to be aware of them on a continual basis. You’ll soon find more blessings in your life than you thought possible. I dare you. Try it.


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Dr. Pamela Reilly is a Naturopathic Physician dedicated to helping people improve their health and eliminate symptoms using natural, integrative methods. She has over 25 years of experience and has helped men, women and children improve their health using a holistic, client-centered focus. She sees clients in Indianapolis, does house calls, and also conducts consultations via Skype or telephone. Please feel free to contact her or visit her Consultations page for more information. Dr. Pamela speaks nationwide on a wide variety of health topics and welcomes speaking invitations.

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7 Responses to Why Bigger Isn’t Better

  1. Sharmie says:

    Pamela – A most awesome blog. There is *always* something to be thankful for! Be abundantly blessed, my friend!

  2. Nila says:

    Hi Pamela,

    Like others here, I enjoyed your slightly different take on our Tweetsgiving posts. I imagine we all have things in our lives we take for granted. I'm sure I could make a nearly endless list. Thanks for helping me even think about that list. Happy Thanksgiving!

  3. Angie @ Just Like The Number says:

    I'm a fellow blogger in this year's #tweetsgiving campaign. I really enjoyed your post and the perspective you provided. I'm a stay-at-home-mom to 2 young children, and I get so frustrated/discouraged sometimes with the never-ending messes. Thanks for helping me to remember that I should be grateful for the opportunity to care for these wonderful kids and to stay home with them while they're little. Hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

  4. Brooke Randolph, LMHC says:

    Great attitude and you literally made me laugh out loud! Can we still be friends if I am one of those people that never ends a sentence in a preposition, generally even when speaking???

  5. Coxymoney says:

    That was an amazing post! It's not cliche at all, but gosh darnet, we overlook the small things. Thankful doesn't have to be profound, and you embodied that! I'm grateful for your participation in supporting #indytweetup #indytweetsgiving #tweetsgiving!

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